Be careful of who you put on a pedestal. The Three of Swords indicates that idol worship of those who have control of your heart could lead to pain and sorrow if their interests are not attuned with yours.
Take a look at your romanic relationships, or others that involve your heart. Are you being treated fairly? Is there a give and a take or are you the only one willing to do any of the work? Remember that if those you love aren't willing to make the same sacrifices and compromises you are, it may be time to reexamine your involvement in their lives.
You're worth the best, so find people willing to share the pedestal.